” You’re gonna be happy,” said life, “but first I’ll make you strong.“
Hey babes, I hope you have a great weekend, and hope you have an even better week to come. This post will be a little different than most, not beauty related but REAL, and this hits close to home. I’m sure every women has gone through heart ache, and betrayal. Although, that on its self is very difficult to deal with it, to me its actually not. The hardest part is actually the steps to follow..
No one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes, and if you think you are; well then you have another thing coming. We’ve all had our share of mistakes in relationships, cause lets be honest what relationship is
perfect. They all take work and dedication from both partners, and a thing called life happens and makes things a little hard to handle. That doesn’t mean we give up, its actually the complete opposite it means we work harder. I’ve had my share of a complicated relationship, and honestly the hardest part isn’t knowing the truth, its forgiving and letting go. We as women, and I say we, because I know that we tend to always hold on to things its in our nature, or at least I know that I do. I understand that things happen and sometimes it’s not what we like or what we want but in the end it makes us stronger. I am a firm believer that God always has a plan, for his ways are higher and bigger than mine.
I mean, how can you forgive someone who you love. after they’ve hurt you? but after several nights wondering and several long days day dreaming, and a little thing called “soul searching.” I realized that forgiveness isn’t about accepting or excusing them of their behavior or actions. It’s about letting go of the past, and preventing what happened from destroying your heart and person you are. That for me is the hardest part, for those that are dear and near to me know the struggles I face with that. Whether it be with my significant other or family. I know that many of us face this issue, its hard to trust when the ones close to our heart have hurt us the worst. Crazy right? This is where my previous post about Self-Love comes into play. I have to remember to not forget the self respect I deserve and every women and everyone in fact. Sometimes I wear my heart on my sleeve, and all though it is easy to fall back, I know because I live it, we have to realize that we cannot change anyone. They themselves are the ones who have to make that change. It’s up to you or I to wait and see for ourselves…
So I leave you with this, if at some point you’ve ever lose yourself in the hurt, remember Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you– Ephesians 4:32
No one said life was going to be easy, there will bumps and obstacles along the way but with a positive and optimistic outlook on life, following the path God has for you there is no way that all the right things won’t fall into play. I hope this was hopeful and helpful to if not all but one person than that makes my heart content.
Until next time babes,